Parenting, Parenting Stress & The Mental Load Renee Calhoun, LMFT Parenting, Parenting Stress & The Mental Load Renee Calhoun, LMFT

Why Do We Feel Guilty When Life Gets Easier?

Many women feel guilty when life gets easier. Whether it's hiring a babysitter, paying for a cleaning service, or finally having enough financial breathing room to outsource a few tasks, comfort can feel surprisingly uncomfortable. The problem isn't the help. It's the belief that struggle is what makes us worthy.

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Your Invisible Compass: How Your Values Help You Choose Friends, Make Decisions, and Feel Good About Yourself

Have you ever walked away from school or hanging out with friends feeling like something just didn't sit right? That feeling might have less to do with what happened and more to do with your values. This tween-friendly guide helps kids discover what matters most to them, understand why some friendships feel easy while others don't, and learn how values like kindness, honesty, responsibility, and accountability can become their own invisible compass for making confident choices.

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Mom Doesn't Get a Vacation. She Gets a Change of Scenery.

Vacation is supposed to be a break, but for many moms, it's just parenting in a different location. While everyone else packs a suitcase, she's packing for the kids, making reservations, remembering medications, planning meals, taking the pictures, and carrying the invisible mental load that makes family memories possible. If you came home from vacation feeling more exhausted than when you left, you're not alone. The good news? Resentment doesn't have to be next year's travel itinerary. Let's talk about how to share the load before the trip, find moments to actually rest while you're away, and have the conversations that make family vacations feel like a vacation for everyone.

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The Little League Cocktail Hour

When did youth sports become happy hour? Somewhere between the tournament mimosas and the beers hidden in Yeti cups, we've normalized drinking at children's activities and called it self-care. As a therapist and parent, I'm less interested in whether one drink is a problem and more interested in what our kids are learning while they watch us.

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Book Review: Parenting with Love & Logic by Foster Cline and Jim Fay

Many parents and adults are not looking for more rules. They are looking for relief. Love and Logic helps people step out of reaction mode, reduce conflict, and set boundaries without losing connection. Despite the title, this approach is useful far beyond parenting and supports healthier relationships across the lifespan.

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