What if teenage girls aren’t problems we’re supposed to solve? A therapist’s take on Underestimated: The Wisdom and Power of Teenage Girls, including what parents and professionals should take from the book, the resources worth copying, and some uncomfortable questions about how we listen to, trust and raise girls.

Talking with kids and teens about friendships, dating, and boundaries doesn’t require perfect words, just curiosity. This article shares age-by-age conversation starters and reflections to help young people build relationships rooted in respect, emotional safety, and connection.