ADHD and Executive Functioning, Relationships Renee Calhoun, LMFT ADHD and Executive Functioning, Relationships Renee Calhoun, LMFT

Why Small Moments Can Feel So Big

Have you ever noticed how a small moment can suddenly feel huge like someone not texting back or a child saying nobody wanted to play with them? Rejection sensitivity is when the brain reacts quickly to the fear of being left out or not liked. In this post we talk about what it is how it shows up in kids and adults and why understanding it can replace shame with self compassion.

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Relationships Renee Calhoun, LMFT Relationships Renee Calhoun, LMFT

In Defense of Medium Friends

We often think friendship has to be all or nothing: best friend or acquaintance. But there is a middle space that rarely gets celebrated…the “medium friend.” These low-pressure friendships can be some of the healthiest connections in adult life. In this article, therapist Renée Calhoun explains why medium friendships reduce pressure, support healthier expectations, and help both adults and kids build stronger social networks.

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Homework, Relationships Renee Calhoun, LMFT Homework, Relationships Renee Calhoun, LMFT

Why Personal and Family Vaues Matter for Your Mental Health and Your Relationship

Many people come to therapy feeling anxious, disconnected, or stuck in patterns that do not feel like them. Often the real issue is not a lack of effort or motivation. It is that their daily behaviors are no longer aligned with their personal and family values. When you are living out of alignment with what truly matters to you, tension builds in your mental health and in your relationships. Clarifying your values creates direction, strengthens connection, and helps you make decisions that reflect the person and parent you want to be.

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Relationships, Pop Culture & Psychology Renee Calhoun, LMFT Relationships, Pop Culture & Psychology Renee Calhoun, LMFT

Tell Me Lies, Toxic Love, and the Relationships That Made Us Question Ourselves

Why does Tell Me Lies feel so personal for so many people? This article explores the relationship dynamics between Stephen, Lucy, Bree, and Diana and why toxic love can feel familiar. From power imbalances to losing yourself in a relationship, it looks at the emotional patterns that make the show resonate and what it reveals about the way many of us learned to understand love.

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