How to Talk to Your Kids About Human Trafficking (Without Scaring Them)
Talking to your kids about human trafficking can feel overwhelming, but avoiding the conversation does not keep them safe. This guide walks parents through simple, age-appropriate ways to explain the topic from preschool through high school, focusing on connection, safety, and keeping communication open rather than creating fear.
When My Worlds Finally Collided in the Best Way
There’s a quiet kind of isolation that comes with being a therapist. So much of what we carry can’t be shared. Through Worthwhile and Words of Worth, that finally changed for me. For the first time, my family, my work, and my community are coming together in a way that feels meaningful, connected, and long overdue.
I Might Not Be the Therapist for You. And That’s Actually a Good Thing.
Not every therapist is the right fit and that’s a good thing. This article breaks down the difference between experience and expertise, why it matters in therapy, and the key questions to ask before choosing a therapist who truly understands you.
Why Small Moments Can Feel So Big
Have you ever noticed how a small moment can suddenly feel huge like someone not texting back or a child saying nobody wanted to play with them? Rejection sensitivity is when the brain reacts quickly to the fear of being left out or not liked. In this post we talk about what it is how it shows up in kids and adults and why understanding it can replace shame with self compassion.
Healthy Friendships and Relationships at Every Age
Talking with kids and teens about friendships, dating, and boundaries doesn’t require perfect words, just curiosity. This article shares age-by-age conversation starters and reflections to help young people build relationships rooted in respect, emotional safety, and connection.
Why Perimenopause Can Make You Feel Like You’re Loosing Your Mind
Many women enter perimenopause expecting hot flashes and mood swings but are surprised by symptoms like brain fog, forgetfulness, tinnitus, and sudden emotional shifts. These changes can feel frightening and confusing. This article explains why perimenopause can make you feel like you are losing your mind and why these symptoms are actually part of a normal hormonal transition.
In Defense of Medium Friends
We often think friendship has to be all or nothing: best friend or acquaintance. But there is a middle space that rarely gets celebrated…the “medium friend.” These low-pressure friendships can be some of the healthiest connections in adult life. In this article, therapist Renée Calhoun explains why medium friendships reduce pressure, support healthier expectations, and help both adults and kids build stronger social networks.
Learning to Love In Every Language
Most of us were taught to treat others the way we want to be treated. But in relationships that approach often falls short. Learning your partner’s and your child’s love language can transform connection, reduce frustration, and help love land in the way it was meant to be felt.
Why Personal and Family Vaues Matter for Your Mental Health and Your Relationship
Many people come to therapy feeling anxious, disconnected, or stuck in patterns that do not feel like them. Often the real issue is not a lack of effort or motivation. It is that their daily behaviors are no longer aligned with their personal and family values. When you are living out of alignment with what truly matters to you, tension builds in your mental health and in your relationships. Clarifying your values creates direction, strengthens connection, and helps you make decisions that reflect the person and parent you want to be.
Refueling Your Nervous System
If you have been feeling irritable, overwhelmed, or disconnected, your energy may be depleted. This article explores how the nervous system impacts mood and connection, plus reflection questions for every age to help you recognize what drains you and what restores you so you can feel more grounded and present in your life.
The Truth About “Mom Brain” Executive Functioning and the Unique Impact on Mothers
If you’ve ever felt more forgetful, overwhelmed, or mentally stretched since becoming a mom, you’re not imagining it. The transition to motherhood reshapes the brain in powerful ways. Let’s talk about why “mom brain” is real and why it deserves compassion, not criticism.
Tell Me Lies, Toxic Love, and the Relationships That Made Us Question Ourselves
Why does Tell Me Lies feel so personal for so many people? This article explores the relationship dynamics between Stephen, Lucy, Bree, and Diana and why toxic love can feel familiar. From power imbalances to losing yourself in a relationship, it looks at the emotional patterns that make the show resonate and what it reveals about the way many of us learned to understand love.
Maybe It Was Never “Just Anxiety”
Many Xennial and Millennial parents are learning their lifelong “anxiety” is actually ADHD and executive dysfunction. This article explains why so many adults were missed, how parenting brings symptoms into focus, and how a late diagnosis can reduce shame and increase self understanding.
Book Review: Parenting with Love & Logic by Foster Cline and Jim Fay
Many parents and adults are not looking for more rules. They are looking for relief. Love and Logic helps people step out of reaction mode, reduce conflict, and set boundaries without losing connection. Despite the title, this approach is useful far beyond parenting and supports healthier relationships across the lifespan.
Bedtime Questions With Kids
If evenings feel heavy and you’re running out of emotional capacity, these simple bedtime questions help your kids feel seen, connected, and supported without opening the door to overwhelming conversations. Organized by weekly themes like gratitude, confidence, imagination, and calm, this guide is practical, gentle, and easy to use.
It’s Ok to Take Up Space On Your Birthday…and Every Other Day Too
Taking responsibility for your life doesn’t mean becoming demanding or rigid. It means being honest about who you are and what you need. When you’re clear and someone doesn’t show up, it can hurt, but it’s also information. And clarity is kinder than resentment.
Busy Season Survival for Women in Public Accounting
Busy season has a way of turning capable, intelligent women into people who feel like they’re barely keeping it together, while still performing at a high level.
If you work in public accounting, you already know the unspoken rules: long hours, constant deadlines, little margin for error, and the quiet expectation that you’ll “power through” because that’s just how busy season is.
But even when it’s expected, that level of intensity takes a toll.
The Day I Took My Licensure Exam and Nothing Happened
Licensure was supposed to feel like fireworks. Confetti. Proof that I had finally arrived. Instead, it felt more like getting married after already living together. The paperwork changed, but the work stayed the same.
Where Do the Grieving Moms and Daughters Go?
It’s early morning, and before the day has even begun, you already feel depleted. The house is loud, your senses are flooded, and grief sits heavy in your chest as you move through the motions. Ever since your parent died, every day feels like Groundhog Day. You show up because you have to, (for your kids, your partner, your life) but survival feels like all you have to give.
Losing a parent while raising young children carries a unique weight. You’re holding your own grief while also supporting your children’s, all while the world keeps demanding more from you. There’s little space to fall apart, even when everything inside you needs tending.
This space was created for the moms who are quietly carrying it all. The ones who love their children deeply, miss their parent endlessly, and are longing for a place where their grief is allowed to breathe. You don’t have to do this alone anymore.
Read more about how grieving moms can find support, connection, and space to heal.
We don’t need more stuff. We need less. A therapists perspective on ADHD, family overwhelm and regulation.
We were taught that when life feels out of control, the answer is better organization. More bins. More systems. More structure. But for ADHD brains and overwhelmed families, more organization often just becomes more pressure. More to manage. More to remember. More to feel behind on. Sometimes the answer is not another system. Sometimes the answer is simply less.